What A Difference A Decade Makes

Awhile ago I came across this little video on BuzzFeed, about life in your 20s vs. life in your 30s.

I’ve been 30 for less than a year, so when someone talks about being in their 30s, I assume they are talking about other people. People much older than me. I still think of myself of a youthful 20-something! Despite the fact that I’m, well…. not.

But as I watched this video I realized that *gasp* maybe I am actually old!?! I might only be at the beginning of this decade of life, but based on this video, I sure am living the 30s lifestyle! I LOVE naps. My once Olympic speed metabolism apparently now resembles that of a crotchety geezer who can barely walk. Wine parties? Let’s be honest – what party do I go to that’s not a wine party? And the subsequent hangovers? Ohhhhhh the hangovers. That zombie and I could actually be twins. As for facebook, not a day goes by that there’s not some new preggo announcement, and God help you if you tag something unflattering or inappropriate on facebook…. wrath be upon you!

The only part of the video I didn’t relate to completely was my emotional state. Apparently, I’m still working out some of those pesky little issues from my 20s, such as, oh, you know, just the occasional bouts of crippling anxiety, self doubt, and complete and utter confusion. No big deal.

But hey! I’m getting closer to acceptance every single day, so that’s something.

Watch below and see for yourself:

What a difference a decade makes. It’s true.

What decade do you identify the most with?

KariJuly 31, 2013 - 6:46 am

I totally relate to this! I turned 30 about 6 months ago and still cannot face the fact that I’m not in my 20s anymore. Where did the time go? When I used to go to bars in my 20s, I’d always be wanting to dance, even when it wasn’t a dancing atmosphere. I had so much energy. Now when we go out (which is few and far between), I’m content just lounging because my feet hurt:) Surprisingly, hitting the 30 mark did not magically make me know what I wanted from the next decade, though. I guess I accept myself more, but I still have no idea if I want kids, where my career is going, etc. Now I just feel more pressure to make these decisions since I’m getting so old. I wish time would just stand still:) Well, here’s to being 30! (ugh, just writing that made me feel horribly old.)
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Julie / BoundJuly 31, 2013 - 10:23 am

Most definitely the 30′s, but I’ve felt mostly this way my whole life. I told Matt I think everyone has a “true” age, where the trappings of life and other people catch up to where you already are inside. I think mine is 32 (semi-established, maybe having a little kid, still have the rest of my life wide open) and his is 52 (still active, but happiest with an espresso and the Economist).
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LauraJuly 31, 2013 - 10:54 am

I feel ya! I turned 30 in March and at first it stressed me out but now I realize the best years are up ahead. Google “I don’t know about you but I am feeling 32″ for a good laugh :)

JessicaJuly 31, 2013 - 5:16 pm

This is totally me vs. my hubby! But I do get terrible hangovers!

JeniAugust 4, 2013 - 5:45 am

30′s are the best! I think confidence and self acceptance trumps everything else (except maybe age spots and wrinkles..)

BrendaAugust 5, 2013 - 6:43 am

I’ve been following your blog for a solid 3 months or more now, and I absolutely love it! You never fail to disappoint. As a woman in my mid-twenties I can somewhat relate to this and it seems I have a lot to look forward to as I approach my 30′s. Thanks Serena for keeping me entertained!! Much love from DC!!

It’s Friday I’m in Love!


A few things I’m loving this particular Friday…

Orange is the New Black.
I started watching this last week and I’m almost done.
It is so good. Sooo good.
I only have one episode left and I don’t want it to end.
There are so many great characters….
Morello, Red, Sophia…
I even love crazy eyes!
Have you been watching?

The Royal Baby.
Like much of the world, I watched as Baby George made his
grand entrance into the public eye.
And of course, I couldn’t take my eyes off Princess Kate.
And what I really loved that while she looked fantastic,
she also looked…. like a woman that just had a baby.
She didn’t try to cover her post-baby belly like most celebrities do.
And I think that is wonderful.


Jennifer Lawrence.
I thought my girl crush couldn’t get any bigger,
but with this video it has.
I totally want us to be BFFs.
Jennifer, want to hang?

Apparently this story has been around for awhile,
but I only recently learned about it.
It’s about two teens who are hopelessly in love.
And the reason this is so “interesting,”
is because while they look like ordinary teens,
they both happen to be transgender.
And I just think the fact that we are celebrating this
and their love is so inspiring,
and makes me feel like we really are making progress
when it comes to GLBT equality.
And that makes me happy.


And that’s it.
Happy Friday friends!
What are you loving today?

Michelle LimJuly 26, 2013 - 9:00 am

I’m loving the fact that we’re FINALLY going to Tainted Love tonight. I think you forgot to mention that in your post. But it’s okay, I forgive you. :)

nancy @ adore to adornJuly 26, 2013 - 9:33 am

Love the links this Friday! I’m in total agreement with you on how FAB Kate looked after giving birth. As any woman I’m sure understands, you look how you look the day afterwards and I don’t think there’s any weirdness to it except that it might surprise people who have never given birth that you don’t magically “deflate” afterwards. =) On a more serious note, can I please look like her with that hair the next day? I’m sure my version of the next day would equate more to a “hot mess.” =)

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LauraJuly 26, 2013 - 9:43 am

Hey lady! Fellow San Franciscan here! Found your blog through Two Martini’s and look forward to following along. I always love finding other bloggers in my parts of the world! Happy Friday!

MoJuly 26, 2013 - 10:50 am

Did I even tell you that we watched the whole season of OITNB in two days last weekend? We couldn’t stop. SO good.

I also agree with Michelle up there :)

DJJuly 27, 2013 - 3:17 pm

I’m currently typing REALLY REALLY LOUD (I think the caps helped) trying to wake Y up from his nap so we can watch the 6th episode of OITNB. Obsessed. Except I can’t eat during it (my favorite TV-time activity) because every other scene makes me want to vomit. Maybe the show is a good diet.

PS We were trying to figure out what to call it out loud, since the official title is WAY too long, and Y suggested That Prison Show With the Titties. Still too long, but definitely rolls of the tongue easier.
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eileen ragan | leaner by the lakeJuly 29, 2013 - 7:48 pm

Literally queuing up Orange Is The New Black THIS instant on Netflix. I watched three episodes before our trip to Michigan and I’ve needed a fix since the moment we got back. Finally getting a spare second (or hour!) before bedtime to indulge in an episode :)

And hell to the yes for J.L. I watched too many (aka not enough) youtube videos of her after her acceptance speech and seeing her in Silver Linings really sealed the deal.
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KariJuly 30, 2013 - 8:26 am

I just found your blog and am so excited to follow along! After reading your “about me” page, I’m hooked:) Hope you’re having a great day!

Julie / BoundJuly 30, 2013 - 9:53 am

Hells to the yes on OITNB. Watched the pilot episode last night, and now am obsessed.
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A Hood River Holiday

Sometimes when I travel to other places in the U.S. I tend to discount it, thinking that because I’m not leaving the United States it’s not “real travel.” But when I went to Austin a few months ago and fell so completely in love with it, I started to realize just how silly that is. And I felt that way again this past weekend while in Hood River. There are so many great places in the U.S. that I’ve never been to, and just because I’m not crossing any international borders to get there doesn’t make it less of a travel worthy experience. Hood River was no exception.

We flew into Portland airport Thursday afternoon, and from there we met up with Gretchen and Derek (two of our best friends, who you may remember as the reason we went to Austin), hopped into a rental car, and drove the hour north to Hood River. The drive was less than an hour, but it felt much shorter because we were so enchanted by the views. Every direction you looked you were met with some sort of outdoor stunner, from snow covered peaks to waterfalls to fields full of wildflowers and lavender. The natural beauty of the area was breathtaking.

Chris and Rachel’s wedding was Saturday and it was insanely beautiful. I’ve been to a lot of weddings, and their venue was easily one of the most stunning wedding venues I have ever seen. Pictures to come, but in the meantime, here’s a rundown of our Hood River mini-vacation:


We decided to forgo the usual hotel room and instead the four of us rented this condo right in the heart of downtown Hood River. It could not have been more perfect. The location was great, we had a balcony that overlooked the gorge, and the condo was more than big enough for the four of us (granted, coming from our tiny SF apartment, that’s not hard). As far as other accommodations go, Hood River is super small, so there are not a whole lot of hotels right downtown, but most of the wedding guests stayed at the Hood River Hotel. Located directly across from our condo was Villa Columbia B&B, which looked like a good option as well.



The best meal we had was at Apple Valley BBQ in Parkdale, about half hour away from Hood River. I don’t eat a lot of meat, so when I do, I want it to be good, and oh man, this was GOOD. Sooooo good. The ribs fell off the bone and the pulled pork was just to die for, and the BBQ sauce was so delicious that if we were checking a bag I would have brought home ten bottles of it. We also ate at Big Horse Brew Pub. The food was nothing spectacular but it was worth it for the views and ambiance. For breakfast, the breakfast sandwiches at Knead Bakery were a fantastic quick morning bite.


For such a small place, there are a shocking amount of pubs, bars, and wineries. My personal favorite was the wine bar The Pines 1852, which we went to on Thursday night and was full of “cotton heads” and “white hairs” as Derek and Kevin so lovingly described them. Lots of old people dancing. I loved it. As did Gretchen, and the two of us tore it up on the old people dance floor. Pfriem Family Brewers was right on the gorge and had a really cool warehouse vibe. The welcome party was held at Springhouse Cellar Winery, yet another really cool and beautiful outdoor venue. Double Mountain Brewery had some great beer (and the food looked good as well!). Waucoma Club was our late night spot two nights in a row.

Things To Do

On Friday we drove the Fruit Loop, a 35-mile drive that took you through wineries, farms, orchards, and more. Our first stop was Mt. Hood Winery, a winery so stunning you felt like you were in a movie. I hate to say it, but it almost put those in Napa and Sonoma to shame.

From there we stopped at a few farms and orchards, including Draper Girls Country Farm, where we attempted to pick cherries but quickly realized that this was much more fun in theory than reality. We made a quick and rather unsuccessful stop to Foothills Alpaca Farm, and ended our day at Hood River Lavender.

On Saturday we attempted to find a place to go swimming, which took us to Mosier Swimming Hole. Once we realized that you pretty much had to hike down a small but extremely steep cliff to get to it, we decided to do something a little less adventurous and instead hung out at the easily accessible and far less terrifying Koberg Beach.

Getting Around

This is easy: Rent a car. While you can walk to bars and restaurants, you’ll need a car if you want to do any sort of exploring. Which you’ll want to do.



On Sunday we spent most of the day in Portland. After being told by multiple people that I “HAD TO GO TO VOODOO DOUGHNUTS” I decided that I had to go to voodoo doughnuts and forced everyone else to come with me. And so we went. And waited in line for 30 minutes. And then proceeded to buy far more donuts than was necessary. And then felt insanely sick and gross after eating the said donuts.

And the thing is… I feel like I am going to get scorned for saying this… they were just okay. They were good, don’t get me wrong, but… I’ve had better donuts. Dynamo Donuts in SF puts them to shame, in my opinion. Perhaps I am just a doughnut snob? (also – is it donut or doughnut? so confusing!)

Later in the day we had lunch in the Pearl District, wandered around the Alphabet District, and had drinks on Alberta street. It was a nice day, but I’m glad most of our time was spent in Hood River. It was just a great little place.

Have you ever been to Hood River?

Julie / BoundJuly 23, 2013 - 7:23 am

The Fruit Loop?! That gets 80 points just for awesome naming. This trip looks like so much fun. The whole time we were in Seattle, Matt was like, “oh, I really want to go back to Portland, it was so great,” which of course made me want to extend our trip, but he wouldn’t. Rude. And now I want a doughnut to soothe my troubled soul. And I don’t know how to spell it, either.
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JeniJuly 23, 2013 - 8:26 am

What a fun itinerary. Oregon looks amazing from your pictures!! Incidentally my fiancé just got back from Portland for his bachelor party and the pics I managed to steal a look at had Portland/Oregon in quite a different light ;)

TheresaJuly 23, 2013 - 10:48 am

There are so many places in the US I would love to see! But you’re right, for some reason I often only consider a vacation to be a trip outside the US. I don’t know why that is, there are so many amazing places right here! It looks like a wonderful weekend, and you had such amazing weather too!
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LaurenJuly 23, 2013 - 12:53 pm

What an awesome weekend!! I need to go back so I can do all the things on this list… well maybe minus the donuts :)
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BethJuly 24, 2013 - 7:58 am

One I’m incredibly jealous you went to voodoo donut & two that lavender farm looks amazing!

nicole marieJuly 24, 2013 - 9:48 am

honestly what traveling in europe has taught me is how many amazing places there are in the US that i still havn’t been too! places practically in my own backyard like santa barbara, big sur, the redwood forest… so many amazing places i want to see!

love that picture of you guys on the truck… adorbs!

eileen ragan | leaner by the lakeJuly 29, 2013 - 7:52 pm

I’ve been waiting for THIS POST! Amazing. Everything looks just incredible. Cannot wait to plan our itinerary this weekend and comb through all your details here. Looks like a fantastic time. I need to be at that lavender farm, stat.
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RachelDecember 12, 2013 - 1:11 pm

Oh my gosh I’m just seeing this post! I was on my honeymoon already when you posted this. It’s so great to see all the fun things you guys did on your visit. Also fun to see Hood River and that weekend through someone else’s eyes. I want to go back and just be a tourist there next time! Glad you fell in love with it like we did ;-)

Hood River Bound…

Today Kevin and I are off to Hood River, Oregon for the wedding of our very good friends Rachel and Chris.


I’ve never been to Oregon before, so I’m excited to spend some time discovering a bit of this lovely part of the world. I don’t know much about it, but based on my (admittedly limited) research, Hood River looks rather idyllic. It’s a small town located right in the Columbia River Gorge, full of wineries and orchards, fields of wildflowers, breathtaking waterfalls, and all sorts of other outdoor goodness.


On Sunday we’re hoping to spend the day in Portland, so if you have any recommendations for either there or Hood River, please share!

Anything I absolutely shouldn’t miss out on?!?

Tell me! I am an Oregon virgin!

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MargaretJuly 18, 2013 - 5:40 am

Looks gorgeous! Have a great weekend!
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eileen ragan | leaner by the lakeJuly 18, 2013 - 6:24 am

I can’t wait to hear about where you go and what you see! My boyfriend and I are going out to visit Portland for five days in August and smack in the middle of our trip we are planning to rent a car for a day and trek out to Columbia River Gorge area to see the water falls and enjoy the scenery. Do share your day’s itinerary – would love to hear what you pick to see!
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JustineJuly 18, 2013 - 7:31 am

Portland is awesome! Go to Salt and Straw Ice cream! You might stand in line forever, but you will not regret it!

StephanieJuly 18, 2013 - 8:45 am

Have an awesome (and safe) trip this weekend!! :)
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ChantalJuly 18, 2013 - 11:16 am

My best friend is from Oregon! and her hubby is from Hood River. I’ve never been to Hood River, but I have heard it is gorgeous! Hope you have the best time!
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nancy @ adore to adornJuly 18, 2013 - 11:41 am

Voodoo Doughnuts of course! =)
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JeniJuly 18, 2013 - 10:36 pm

the fiance is there this weekend celebrating his bachelor party. apparently they’re rated “best strip club in the country”, who knew?! but of course you wouldn’t be interested in that, would you…? ;)

nicole marieJuly 22, 2013 - 9:17 pm

have fun!!