A Case of The Blahs

Hello friends. Happy Friday! I feel like I say this all. the. time. but this week felt particularly long. My weekend in Tahoe was wonderful but it also kind of kicked my ass. Staying up late drinking into the wee hours of the morning really takes it out of me. I just can’t hang like I used to.

Lately I feel like my blog has been a bit… blah, and I’m not really sure how to snap out it this blahness. I’ve been feeling rather uninspired. I’ll have these random ideas for blog posts float through my head, but then whenever I sit down to write about them… nothing comes. So I apologize if my blog has been less than engaging lately. (and yes, I know I shouldn’t have to apologize for my blog, but since it is my blog, I can do what I want. and what I want to do is apologize for being boring.) (really I’m apologizing to myself.)

I’ve also started to feel really blah about my apartment, and I think maybe that is carrying over to my blog? That sounds crazy, I know. But I go home and I look around and I feel blah, and then I start to think of all the things I want to do to anthropologie it up and make it feel more “blogworthy,” and then I get overwhelmed and do nothing. I have lived in our apartment for three years, which is the longest I’ve lived anywhere consecutively since I was 18, and in a way I think being stationary for this long has made me feel… stagnant. I’m used to moving and purging and redecorating every couple of years. So now I want to paint a wall or redecorate a room or do… something.

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I want my apartment to magically look just like this. And by magic I mean I want Emily Henderson to come over and redo it while I’m sleeping and then not charge me for it.

Last night Kevin and I got into a little tiny stupid argument, (mostly) my fault, about our extra room. You see, our apartment is small, and because of that, our second bedroom tends to morph into that of a storage unit.* And last night I went into it and stared around and then dramatically declared “I HATE THIS ROOM! WHAT IS THE POINT OF HAVING AN EXTRA ROOM IF WE JUST USE IT AS A CLOSET!” When Kevin looked at me dubiously, I continued: “I’VE WANTED TO MAKE THIS INTO A REAL GUEST ROOM FOR OVER A YEAR! BUT YOU NEVER HELP ME!” This is pretty much the opposite of true, so Kevin was less than pleased. The truth is that he offers to help me all the time, but I am exceptionally lazy and often say “I don’t feel like it, let’s do it another day.” And then he shrugs and says okay. And then I blame him later. Oh, marriage! (And yes, I apologized).

All of this is to say that I think I need to spice things up a bit, here on my blog and also in my apartment. A spring cleaning will do me some good. Purge and clean and update. And maybe then the inspiration will start flowing again.

Or maybe I just need to stop reading so many design blogs?

Probably the latter.

Anyway, how are you all doing? What’s new in your neck of the woods? Any of you feeling the same blah as me?

*Our friend Jesse refers to this as our “room of shame,” because 95% of the time when he comes over the door is shut and I tell him not to go in there. It’s like Monica’s secret closet.

MoMarch 22, 2013 - 8:18 am

Our guest room was literally Justin’s closet/storage room. I would beat myself up about it too sometimes, but really lets look at the facts: We live in small, city apartments. Pretty, stylish spare rooms are for those with multiple walk-in closets, a garage, a basement and a storage shed out back. We don’t have those things. Don’t worry about your spare room! But let’s totally shop together for stuff to spruce up our living rooms.

StephanieMarch 22, 2013 - 9:59 am

I totally understand the blah feeling. We did a major deep cleaning last weekend and I went through my closet and made a pretty huge donation to Goodwill. That helped and it made me feel like it’s now okay to buy more stuff for the apartment.
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SarahMarch 22, 2013 - 11:13 am

Aw been there. Wouldn’t it be nice to be like Bre in regards to having crazy awesome designer friends to help decorate our place and even possibly write off some of the expenses since those pictures went on her blog? *sigh* Just have a major purge sesh. Then start taking pictures of the tiny details. I took a pic of my vintage alarm clock in our guest room and it inspired me to do a post on my creative space. I hope you feel better!

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 22, 2013 - 11:25 am

Oh the woes of feeling blah. It’s actually how I have felt lately too. I am trying soooo hard to let it seep into other parts of my life…but misery loves company right?
I hope you find your inspiration soon. Hey…at least we have our meet-up to look forward to! =)
Here’s to the weekend!
xo,
nancy
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DJ @werejustdandyMarch 22, 2013 - 8:49 pm

“I’ll have these random ideas for blog posts float through my head, but then whenever I sit down to write about them… nothing comes.”

YES. This happens to me all the time, and then I’ll have like a month of dead-air (dead-blog?). It’ll come back. And when it does, write like 10 posts at a time!!

PS your blog looks cute! I don’t think I’ve seen this design yet.

Allison @ Lawfully LostMarch 23, 2013 - 7:29 am

I felt like that last week with my condo and went out a bought new bedding. It made a world of difference, didn’t cost very much, and made me feel much better. Every day this week, I’ve walked into my bedroom and instantly felt better upon seeing my new purchase. Maybe make a small change, rather than a big project right off the bat?

Also, hilarious that your friend calls the spare room the “shame room”. Whether it’s a closet, room, garage, everyone has their own shame room.

xo
Allison
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HeathersphereMarch 24, 2013 - 7:57 am

I hate the blahs, but I enjoyed your blog and keep on posting, I will read! Take care.

Camille | Planning PrettyMarch 24, 2013 - 10:51 pm

I saw Bri’s new room and was instantly envious! Her sofa is my favorite color! I also need to do a spring cleaning on my blog. I have to take it to the next level, and take pride in my work. I wouldn’t say stop reading other blogs completely but definitely put yourself first! I think we all forget to do that sometimes.

NoraMarch 30, 2013 - 8:11 am

I sometimes feel the same way about my apartment. I would just change a few small things at a time, like get new throw pillows for the couch and eventually it will all come together!

Nora

KellyApril 3, 2013 - 4:11 pm

I’m very behind on my blogs (been busy!!) and I’m just reading through all of yours and seriously…JUST before I read this one, I was thinking “Her blog is so cheery and fun. I need to make my blog more like this” :) So, haha…your blah may be my fun!! Just kidding, but I don’t find your blog blah at all :)

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Happy First Day of Spring & International day of Happiness!

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Today is the first day of Spring.

Considering it’s raining cats and dogs outside, and it is my idea of freezing, I had no idea Spring had sprung until I saw it come up in a tweet.

But… today is another exciting day as well! While you might have already known that today marks the first of spring, you probably didn’t know that it’s also the first annual International Day of Happiness!

A day dedicated just to happiness… I had no idea such a day even existed!

But apparently, it does!

The day, which has its own website and hashtag (#HappyDay) was created last June, at the suggestion of Bhutan (a country who takes happiness very seriously) and once decided upon, the U.N. General Assembly declared the following:

“Conscious that the pursuit of happiness is a fundamental human goal,[…] Recognizing also the need for a more inclusive, equitable and balanced approach to economic growth that promotes sustainable development, poverty eradication, happiness and the well-being of all peoples, Decides to proclaim 20 March the International Day of Happiness, Invites all Member States, organizations of the United Nations system and other international and regional organizations, as well as civil society, including non-governmental organizations and individuals, to observe the International Day of Happiness in an appropriate manner, including through education and public awareness-raising activities…”

The happiness day is hoping to encourage us all to ACT, as in

  • Affirm the happiness pledge to bring more happiness to others
  • Cheer the Happy Heroes who bring happiness to others and tell us why
  • Take part on the day by doing something at home, work, school or in your community to bring happiness to others.
    (the website has lots of ideas and events)

Kind of awesome, right?

To learn more and jump on the happiness bandwagon, head on over to dayofhappiness.net!

Happy happy day friends! What are you going to do today to create some happiness?

Are you taking the pledge? (I am!)

P.S. I think this happiness day is already working, because today at lunch I forgot my wallet,
and the restaurant told me I could come back and pay tomorrow!
And that made me very happy.

JessicaMarch 20, 2013 - 3:20 pm

I never would have known. I will start getting happy now…it’s never to late, right!?
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StephanieMarch 20, 2013 - 6:50 pm

I had no idea it was happiness day but I met up with the fiance for a coffee date and said it would be my treat when he ordered. Then the lovely starbucks barista said since I was being nice and treating my fiance, he would be nice and treat me so I got my latte for free! Maybe he knew it was International Happiness Day…
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Camille | Planning PrettyMarch 21, 2013 - 12:00 am

So bummed it was raining today too! You should definitely include this post in Artsocial’s be happy link up on Thursdays! Just check her site for instructions tomorrow :)
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JadeMarch 21, 2013 - 7:23 am

Hey! Lovely post! I could use more happiness in my day. I just went to the Day of Happiness website and I do feel more happy! I’ll have to remember this for next year.

-Jade (found you on BBN!)

MargaretMarch 21, 2013 - 10:52 am

Oh what I wouldn’t give for rain right now (we’re under a winter weather advisory right now…)!

The Day of Happiness sounds pretty awesome too- random acts of kindness really are the best.
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JessMarch 21, 2013 - 12:16 pm

Makes sense to me that this would take place on the first day of spring! I guess the first day of summer should be something like The International Day of Even More Happiness Yay! Hahah

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Louise EduMarch 21, 2013 - 5:17 pm

Hi Serena, so nice to meet u thru the be happy linkup! I think it’s so important to choose to be happy! not only for yourself, but for those around u =) Happy Spring! xo
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alyssaMarch 22, 2013 - 9:46 am

Welcome! I’m so excited you joined the linkup this week! Thank you so much for sharing that it was the International Day of Happiness! Kind of perfect for us that it happened to be a Thursday. :)
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Attention San Francisco Bloggers…

My blog friend Stephanie and I have put together a small
Bay Area Blogger Meetup
on Thursday, April 11th, in San Francisco!

Care to join us?

My most favorite thing about blogging has been developing relationships with other bloggers.
A handful of the bloggers that I read happen to live in the bay area as well,
and for a few months I’ve been thinking to myself
how fun it would be to meet some of them in person.

To finally put real people behind the stories and photos
whose lives I follow along with online.

Because while I feel like I know these people,
I’ve never actually met them.
It’s like You’ve Got Mail!
But with friends.

I figured that I couldn’t be the only one
who was ready to take our cyber friendships to the next level,
so I asked my blog friend Stephanie if she would be interested
in putting together a little bay area blogger meetup with me.
And she was!

So we reached out to our other blog friends,
and now we’ve got a pretty awesome little group of SF bloggers
all getting together on April 11th.

An official blogger meetup!
Woo hoo!

It will be like our own Alt Summit!

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Ha! Just kidding.

This is a very casual meetup.
As I mentioned in my invite email,
there will be no crafty name tags or Bash Please type party decor
(although that would be awesome, I am just craft handicapped).

Instead, it’s just some girls getting together
for boozy beverages and tapas and conversation.

(Well, I don’t know if they’re all planning on the boozy part, but I am!)

This is no way an exclusive event,
so if you’re a blogger in the bay area and want to join us,
please email me (or Stephanie) and I’ll send over all the pertinent information.

I was going to post all the details here,
but then a fear ran through my head…

What if a crazy person reads this
and because we all so fantastic and fabulous,
decides to show up and stalk us?

I know that’s absolutely ridiculous,
but hey, better safe than sorry, right?

So instead I’m leaving you with vague info,
and if you want to join us,
just leave a comment below or shoot me an email
and I’ll get back to you with the details.

Who: So far a small but awesome group of bay area bloggers!
What: SF blogger meetup!
Where: Email me or Stephanie to find out.
When: Thursday, April 11th, 7-9 pm.
Why: Why not?

Happy Monday friends!

Joy | Frock FilesMarch 18, 2013 - 7:27 am

Oh, I wish I could make it to this meetup! Thanks for linking back to the post about Justin. He’s amazing, isn’t he? xo
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MoMarch 18, 2013 - 8:00 am

I’m so excited about this!

MargaretMarch 18, 2013 - 3:28 pm

This makes me seriously wish that I lived in San Fran! Actually, just one more reason…husband and I have been strongly considering moving there for a year or so!

SarahMarch 19, 2013 - 12:21 am

Yay how fun! I already got the info from Stephanie, but I just wanted to leave a comment and say how excited I am. I’m originally from southern cali, but just moved up in the bay area not too long ago so this is perfect timing!!!

LaurenMarch 19, 2013 - 10:28 am

SO excited!!! Yay!

MegMarch 19, 2013 - 3:52 pm

what? you get to hang out with stephanie in real life, that is awesome. i want to meet her some day, i know we would be great friends. wish i lived in SF i would totally come
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It’s Friday!!! Fridaaaaaay!

Happy Friday lovelies!

Anyone else feel like this has been a looooong week?
My Monday felt like Thursday.
(I’m sure losing an hour of sleep didn’t help either.)

Fortunately though, I’ve got fun things in store for me from here on out.
I’m heading to Tahoe for a girls weekend.

(that is not me or my friends, but you get the picture)
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You’re probably thinking to yourself I’m going up
to ski or snowboard or do some other snow related sport.

And you would be wrong.

Despite going to college in Boulder, Colorado
(a school in which skiing is a way of life)
I’ve never gone enough to actually get into that.

So while all my friends would go skiing or snowboarding,
I’d be kicking back at the lodge drinking some baileys.

And that’s basically what I plan on doing this weekend.
Except this time I have a partner in crime!

While the other girls are killing it on the slopes,
My friend Erin and I will be cruising around Squaw,
making the occasional snow angel, and getting a little boozed up.
I mean, it’s St. Patrick’s day after all…

And I can’t wait.

Do you have any fun weekend plans?

JustineMarch 15, 2013 - 6:29 am

This sounds like a blast! I live pretty close to a couple of mountains here in Oregon, but I never really got into skiing or snowboarding. I’m too paranoid of getting hurt! I would love to try snow shoeing though! The lodge sounds like it’s going to be equally enjoyable!

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 15, 2013 - 10:38 am

that sounds so fun! That would be me too btw…I don’t know how to ski or snowboard so I’d be the one kicking back with some drinks. =)
xo,
nancy
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MoMarch 15, 2013 - 10:45 am

That sounds waaaaay cooler than weekend of packing. I can’t wait to live closer to Tahoe!

Have a great time and enjoy some Baileys and a hot tub for me!

AliceMarch 15, 2013 - 2:08 pm

Yeeah, I’m not a skier either. In my defence, this is because I do not live anywhere remotely near snow. But if I did ski, I think I’d still prefer to sit in the lodge drinking Baileys…!! Have a lovely time! xx
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RIP Google Reader

(warning: this is a very melodramatic post)

Yesterday blog readers around the world learned some sad, sad news.

Google Reader is retiring.

As of July 1st, it will be no more.
Gone. Retired. Dead to the world.

Alas, I love my google reader,
so I was heartbroken by this announcement.

I’m embarrassed to admit it,
but upon hearing this news I went into a slight panic.
For years I’ve been following along my favorite bloggers adventures
through the lens of google reader.

So what am I supposed to do now?
Actually visit the blog itself?
Subscribe via email?
Switch to a new platform?
Woe is me!

Oh the drama!

Anyway, in all seriousness, this news did bum me out.
I’m sure plenty of people out there are already working on new reader alternatives,
and I’m sure bloglovin’ is thrilled at this news.
All will be fine, but I’m still sad to see it go.
Insiders are also saying that this means
no more google friend connect as well,
which makes sense since it was a feature of google reader.

That news doesn’t mean much to me since I’m on wordpress,
but I’m sure all you blogger ladies are not too happy about it.

Oh google, why do you have to torture us so?

Are you as devastated as I am by this news?
If not, how do you read your blogs?

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ChelseaMarch 14, 2013 - 1:26 pm

Personally, I use Bloglovin’. I prefer it over the Google reader.
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Brianne HeapeMarch 14, 2013 - 1:34 pm

I’m still at a loss myself. I’m not sure what I will do now, although Blog Lovin’ is looking like my next option. :) I’d love to find out what you decide to do!

Allison @ Lawfully LostMarch 14, 2013 - 2:01 pm

Uggggh, worst news ever, eh?! I’m so bummed. Like you, it’s where all my blogs are, and I’ve been using it for years. I have my finger’s crossed that Google is coming up with something bigger and better…otherwise, why would they just kill it off?

SerenaMarch 14, 2013 - 2:48 pm

@Brianne – It seems like everyone is moving everything to bloglovin, which I just don’t love as much as other readers. Right now, it looks like engineers are working on http://theoldreader.com/ which should function identical to google reader. That’s probably the direction I’m moving in.

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 14, 2013 - 3:29 pm

well, to put it frankly, this news actually kind of…just…pissed me off.
I mean…why after all these years force your readers to switch platforms? Why make the hassle? It feels so obnoxious to me. I know tech always changes and moves and yes, we should all just keep up. But…seriously? GR.
Perhaps I don’t need to be this aggravated by it but it’s still…SO. FRUSTRATING.
xo,
nancy
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Ugh I was so annoyed when I found out that its nonexistence happens this summer. I used Google Reader for subscribing not just to Blogger blogs but WordPress, Typepad, and other domains. I already had a Bloglovin account and I must say that I love it so far. I like the layout and it wasn’t too difficult to upload all of the blogs I already follow :)
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StephanieMarch 14, 2013 - 5:29 pm

I was devastated by this news. I’ve switched to feedly since this morning and I’m starting to like it. It’s really easy to important everything you have in Reader, it literally took less than 3 minutes.

I’m really bummed about that Google Friend Connect news!
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MoMarch 15, 2013 - 10:48 am

I am sooooo blogger unsavvy , so all of this confuses me. I actually can’t even figure out how to follow you, that’s how bad I am. So I’m pretty sure this will take me months to figure out. Bah.