College is for your MRS Degree? Who knew!

“Forget about having it all, or not having it all,
leaning in or leaning out …
Here’s what nobody is telling you:
Find a husband on campus before you graduate.
Yes, I went there.”

Susan Patton

Okay friends. I’m sure by now you’ve heard about the article Susan Patton, a 1977 Princeton graduate, wrote in the Daily Princetonian, “Advice for the young women of Princeton: the daughters I never had,” in which she says that women (who are we kidding… girls, really) in college need to forget about having it all, and instead, find a husband. This may be old news to you, but I’m a little late to this party and didn’t really hear about it until this morning.

I mean… I just… what?!? I am completely and utterly dumbfounded by this lady.

Her article goes on to say:

“Here is another truth that you know, but nobody is talking about. As freshman women, you have four classes of men to choose from. Every year, you lose the men in the senior class, and you become older than the class of incoming freshman men. So, by the time you are a senior, you basically have only the men in your own class to choose from, and frankly, they now have four classes of women to choose from. Maybe you should have been a little nicer to these guys when you were freshmen?”

Okay, so I didn’t go to Princeton. I went to what Ms. Patton would probably consider a college of “no name recognition,” so perhaps I’m just not up to date with how Ivy Leaguers think, but let me tell you, if you told me when I was 18 that I needed to make sure I’d found myself a husband by the time I was 22? I would have freaked the eff out. In what universe is this woman living in if she thinks that most college kids are ready to get married? Most people at 22 and 23 years old are still trying to figure out who they are and what they want out of this life of theirs. I don’t believe that marriage is something most 22 year old kids are ready for.  I mean, how can you argue that guys doing repulsive crap like this are ready to get married? Give me a break.

(although I’m sure Ms. Patton would say “Princeton students don’t act like that.”)  (and as a side note, nor did anyone at my college. that I know off, at least.)

Now, I know not everyone is like this. Some of you out there married young, and it has worked great for you. I think that is wonderful! Many of my good friends met their future spouses in college, and that’s awesome. But I don’t think that is the norm, nor do I think anyone should feel any pressure that it should be.

I met my husband when he was 30. And I’m so thankful I did, because I can pretty much guarantee that if I met him when he was in college, we would not have clicked. At all. He needed to grow up. I needed to grow up. We both needed to “sow our wild oats” and get some stuff out of our system before we were mature enough to decide to spend our lives together. If I met him in college, I honestly don’t think it would have worked out between us. Which is why I’m very glad I didn’t meet him in college. Because he’s the one for me, and that would have been sad.

Also, why is it okay for men to date younger women but not the opposite way around? Granted, Kevin is older than me, so that doesn’t apply to me to now, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with women dating younger men. Most of the guys I dated pre-Kevin were younger than me. Two of the happiest married people I know are in a relationship in which the wife is five years older than her husband. And how does this work with same-sex couples? This is not 1950.

Some of my cousins attended a very religious private college, and if I were to ask them what they thought of this “advice,” they would probably agree with it. Because they went to school to get their MRS degree. They would actually say this to me, jokingly, but not really. They all found their husbands in college, got married during their senior year or shortly thereafter, and then quickly had kids and became stay at home moms. For them, this was the right decision, so  I know that there are people out there that may agree with this advice. I’m not naive enough to think that my liberal SF views are the norm, either.

But I don’t think that college girls should be aspiring to find their husbands. I think they should be aspiring to “have it all” and to “lean in” and to kick ass and become an awesome, smart, independent young woman! If they happen to find a husband while achieving those things, more power to them! But let’s keep our priorities in order, shall we.

I’m very thankful that Ms. Patton isn’t my mother, or my mother-in-law. And I already feel for the poor women who marry into that family! Can you imagine?

And… end rant.

Have you read Ms. Patton’s article? What’s your take on it?

MargaretApril 2, 2013 - 12:05 pm

Her article definitely rubbed me the wrong way. That being said, I did meet my husband in college…but it was definitely not my top priority- just a happy coincidence. And when I met him in college, I sure as hell wasn’t thinking he would be my husband- I was only 19!

I really like how you said it though- “I think they should be aspiring to “have it all” and to “lean in” and to kick ass and become an awesome, smart, independent young woman! If they happen to find a husband while achieving those things, more power to them!”

AliceApril 2, 2013 - 1:35 pm

Your take on this is brilliant. I am 23, single and while I’m a bit scared of getting old alone, it really is OK. Because my god I am NOT ready to be a wife just yet!!!
I did NOT go to university to meet a future husband- hell, that’s a bloody expensive way of going about it! If I had, then that would have been great, but psh, not what I was there for.
I do want it all- I want a career and a family and a husband. But being ME, alone or with another person, is definitely top of my list of priorities. xx

Julie / BoundApril 2, 2013 - 1:55 pm

What a complete nutter this woman is. Granted, I did meet my husband in college (freshman year, in fact) but he didn’t become my husband for about eight years after that. Why? Because even though we loved each other, we were fetuses and had to grow up to see if your relationship was going to stand the test of becoming adults. Which it did, but it easily could have gone the other way if we had been slightly different people.

College is a great place to meet someone, but only because it’s a giant group of people who are all your age and looking to mingle and have fun. It’s not a great place to head in with the expectation that you’re going to make your soulmate connection happen. Shouldn’t you be a little more focused on, oh, I don’t know…making lifelong friends and getting an education?

eileen ragan | leanerbythelakeApril 2, 2013 - 7:07 pm

Yikes – this article made my skin crawl. This reminds me of last month when I watched Mona Lisa Smile and cried my entire way through the film after realizing that no, this isn’t a light-hearted Julia Roberts rom-com and yes, this is a film about women in the 50s forgetting future use of an ivy league degree and focusing on the sole purpose of wifery.

Thanks for sharing. I’ll be linking up with this one this week for sure.

RebeccaApril 2, 2013 - 7:53 pm

Well said! I love love love this. I am a recent college grad. I have a stable job, live alone, have a good group of friends and I’m SINGLE. And I couldn’t be happier with my life. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want a guy in my life, but I don’t NEEEEEED a guy in my life to be happy or successful.

CamilleApril 2, 2013 - 10:42 pm

Okay so I’m going to play devil’s advocate, slightly. Not saying I agree with the article because it very pushy. But I will say that having it all means something different for everyone. All depends what you value more. I met my now husband as a teen. We started dating my freshman year at Harvard and I invested a lot in our relationship. I made tough career sacrifices after graduation because getting married was a priority. I’m married now, the only one out of all my friends. It’s hard being the oddball with friends and in society too. But I’m happier being married than I would have been as a career woman. But I knew a lot of girls at Harvard who were looking for “Mr. Right”!

ritaApril 3, 2013 - 7:19 am

ha. while this letter is absurd i also think it’s sort of hysterical – i agree with the main point (marry someone of an equal or higher intelligence level- although i know that is not important to everyone) but the delivery/premise of how to do that is inane at best. but who wants to take relationship advice from a divorcee anyways? clearly she can’t confirm that is what was best to do!

matt is also five years older than me, and i can’t imagine what my life would be like if i had ended up with any of the dbags i dated in college. it took me growing up and realizing i had value to find someone who felt the same… must be b/c i went to a big 10 vs. ivy:)

KaitlynApril 3, 2013 - 7:48 am

UGH. Okay. So I hadn’t read this article until you posted about it. There’s just so much wrong with it I don’t even know how to begin. Her haughty attitude really grates. I don’t know who in their right mind would think that the purpose of these institutions and their plethora of resources is to facilitate engagements. Ridiculous!!! I do think it’s totally fine to marry young(er) if that’s what works right for you and your partner, but… like you, I also highly doubt that the majority of college-aged kids are ready for that. Personally, I’m a third-year university student, and the thought of “needing” to get engaged by next year is making me break out in hives. And the implication that women have to be younger bugs me too.

I don’t know, to me college/university is about furthering your education and becoming a better person… if that happens to involve getting engaged along the way, fine, but I really don’t think it should be the goal and it bugs me big time that people view universities as places OTHER THAN institutions for learning.

StephanieApril 3, 2013 - 10:43 am

Ugh, I saw this the other day and was so disgusted I couldn’t bring myself to read her open letter. If I had married my college boyfriend, I would’ve ended up divorced by 30. And if I had met my fiance in college, I highly doubt we would’ve liked each other, much less dated. Plus, the whole notion that a woman does not have a complete life unless she’s married -which this article definitely seems to imply- just drives me nuts.

NinaApril 4, 2013 - 7:27 pm

I heard about this today and all I can think is THANK GOODNESS I am not of her mindset. I did meet my boyfriend when I was in college…he graduated college long ago, he is 15 years older than me. And there is NO WAY we would be together if I was dating his 22 year old college self. I went to an arts school, theatre degree, not too many guys in the first place, and the “pickings” for single and straight were slim. Let alone single, straight, and somebody I was attracted to (or would have been if I wasn’t with my boyfriend.)

nicole marieApril 7, 2013 - 6:44 am

I used to joke with my parents that i was going to school to get my mrs degree…. knowing full well i wasn’t gonna meet anyone at sfsu that stood up to my expectations.
there’s also no way i was ready to even think about marriage in college… i wasn’t even ready for the 4 year relationship i was in!

i do have to say that meeting someone in college and marrying them seems sooooo much easier than to find someone now, especially in sf where boys run around like peter pans with plenty of girls to keep them entertained. One of my best friends married her college bf. They didn’t get married till last year (several years out of college and they did break up during college and date other people) but sometimes i’m a little envious that they found each other and don’t have to deal with all the BS the rest of us out of college single girls do

Happy Friday!

It’s Friday! Yay!

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A few random updates/things to share:

1. I made these sweet potato veggie burgers for dinner last night, and they were fantastic! Super easy to make, though it did take me a bit longer than I expected. Kevin and I skipped the buns to go low-carb, but honestly, it was so good you didn’t even need the bread. And the garlic yogurt sauce was incredible.

2. Kevin had LASIK yesterday, and is, so far, completely fine! He is basically having the exact opposite of the experience I had. Before the surgery Kevin told the surgeon that he was pretty nervous about it considering everything that happened to me, and the surgeon said that out of the 75,000 LASIK surgeries he has performed, it had been 10 years since he had a case with complications like mine. So… lucky me! I keep saying to him “what do you mean your eyes aren’t burning? why aren’t your eyes constantly tearing? It seriously doesn’t hurt to open your eyes or blink? How is this possible?” Welcome to what a normal LASIK recovery is like. *And regarding the picture, considering that Kevin is bald, we were extremely confused as to why they had him wear a hairnet?

3. After reading Julie’s stellar recommendation, I downloaded the audio book version of The Handmaid’s Tale (I had an audible credit from all the books I listened to while recovering from LASIK), and holy moly, it was such a great book! I’m absolutely shocked that it was written in 1985, because I feel like it is so relevant to today. I’m also shocked that I hadn’t already read it. Also, it was narrated by Claire Danes, and she killed it. She was insanely good. Now THAT is what a good audio book narrator is supposed to sound like.

4. The SF blogger meetup that Stephanie and I put together is turning into a real legit thing! Not that it wasn’t a legit thing before, but it started with a handful of women, and now we’re at 20. Kind of crazy. I got an email from last night from a blogger who said she heard about it through an ALT class, which I think is rather awesome. If it keeps on growing, we may need to find a bigger venue. What a wonderful problem to have!

Other than that, I’m looking forward to this weekend immensely. I’ll be spending tomorrow celebrating a friend’s 30th birthday in Sonoma, and on Sunday I’ll be getting together with some friends for a boozy Easter brunch.  Food and wine and friends. My favorite kind of weekend.

What are you all up to this weekend?

Julie / BoundMarch 29, 2013 - 11:42 am

Yay, so glad you liked it. Isn’t Claire Danes ridiculous? And I’m soooo annoyed that I’m not in SF now. This blogger meet-up is going to be so fun, I can totally tell. Have a drink for me, ok?

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 29, 2013 - 1:41 pm

Have a great weekend!!
Well…there you have it…at least you were “special” in regards to Lasik.
xo,
nancy

Anna & AnneMarch 29, 2013 - 1:59 pm

What we really want to know is: Why did Kevin need a hairnet?! KIDDING!

Hi from Kevin’s coworkers 🙂

KevinMarch 29, 2013 - 2:13 pm

@Anne and @Anna…. I was wondering that too!

heather @ fieryandopinionatedMarch 29, 2013 - 9:07 pm

wow, 20 people?? now i’m nervous. 🙂 really excited to you and everyone else! enjoy your wine-filled weekend, sounds awesome.

Andi of My Beautiful AdventuresMarch 30, 2013 - 4:53 pm

Those burgers look AMAZING!!!!!

MelissaMarch 30, 2013 - 10:29 pm

So bummed I can’t make it to the meet-up! Pretty sure I heard about it from that blogger who heard about it through the Alt Class 🙂 Would love to attend future events though so hopefully there will be more!

CamilleMarch 31, 2013 - 8:58 pm

So glad the meetup is a success! I shared your post with a few blogger friends 🙂 I’m so excited to meet you and a ton of other bloggers!

eileen ragan | leaner by the lakeApril 1, 2013 - 10:53 am

Those sweet potato burgers just blew my mind. Legit have all of that in our pantry. Going in the meal planner pronto. Thanks for sharing!

Coming to you from Bound (love her site!) and will be sticking around. Love your blog.

Happy Monday!
Eileen

http://www.leanerbythelake.com

nicole marieApril 1, 2013 - 11:14 am

uhh sooo shocked kevin did lasik after your experience.

and huge FOMO over the sf blogger meet up

kate @ undeniable styleApril 2, 2013 - 1:31 pm

I love everything about this post. I’m going to have to try your recipe and read the book, and of course, I’ll be at the meetup.

[…] The Handmaid’s Tale– I cannot recommend the audio book version of this enough, which is narrated by Claire Danes. She kills it. I wrote a bit more about this here. […]

And This Basically Sums Up My Relationship With Wine…

I came across this coaster and loved it so much that I knew it had to live here on my blog too. In case you’re having a hard time reading it, it says:

Have ANOTHER drink,” he says, “for it
will make you more ATTRACTIVE, funny,
BEAUTIFUL and wise.”

“No,” say I. “For I am STRONG and SENSIBLE,
and drinking will not do those things you say.”

“Alas,” says he, “then I am surely DOOMED.
For if you do not keep me WET, it is my fate to DIE.”

So drink I do… and drink and drink and
DRINK. For NEVER would I have the
HEART to let a Little Person DIE.

I’ve shared my love of Edward Monkton before, but this print just takes the cake. My favorite one yet.

Don’t worry little person, I will never let you die!

Drew @ Catfish & CaviarMarch 28, 2013 - 6:42 am

Haha this is too cute!

MargaretMarch 28, 2013 - 6:55 am

As soon as I saw the title of this post, I knew I was going to love it. And I do- that’s hilarious!

JulieMarch 28, 2013 - 7:51 am

Amazing. I mean, you’re just trying not to be needlessly cruel, right?!

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 28, 2013 - 9:50 am

haha…this is so awesome!
xo,
nancy

AliceMarch 28, 2013 - 10:22 am

I LOVE Edward Monkton- this is definitely one of my favourites EVER though!! x

JessMarch 28, 2013 - 1:58 pm

LOL we`re saving lives every day!

Some Snapshots Blog
Jess

Becoming the Northern California Stereotype

Scene: Saturday afternoon. Kevin and I have just left a store in San Francisco, and I am hungry. We pop into a market across the street, which offers a plethora of processed foods, cheeses, and pizza. I decide to walk a block to an organic market I thought I saw, and buy something a little more healthy.

Me: In what world would I ever forgo pizza and instead choose to walk a block to get kombucha and a curried tofu wrap?!?!
Kevin: It’s awesome! I’m so proud of how healthy we’ve been eating.
Me: Me too! And I’ve been thinking that we should start to make our own granola!
Kevin: Oh for sure. And we should also throw out those eggs we just bought since we’re going to the farmers market tomorrow and they’re not organic.
Me: Definitely.
……..
Kevin: We’re turning into f***ing hippies.

Okay, so if you know us in real life, you would know that Kevin and I are not remotely hippies (at least my definition of hippie). But, lately we’ve been on a healthy clean eating kick, and we love it. We’ve been trying to eat a mostly plant-based Mediterranean diet, limiting the amount of dairy, gluton, and animal protein we eat, and it’s been great. The more I learn about food the more horrified I become by so many things I used to eat without thinking twice about. When you realize just how much shit goes into some of the stuff you’re eating, it’s a lot easier to turn it down. Don’t get me wrong… if I’m craving a burger or a piece of pizza, I’m going to have one, but we’re trying our best to make conscious healthy decisions regarding what we put into our body when we’re at home.

All of this new found knowledge (thank you Kris Carr!) has been empowering, but it’s also made us kind of crazy about food, and shopping, and where we shop. Our new favorite grocery store is your quintessential hippie health store. In this process I’ve realized that when you start to really care about where you shop and what you eat, you start to get the hippie label. Which isn’t a bad thing, by any means, but it cracks me up that caring about food and chemicals and parabens and nitrates, etc., we’re suddenly living what some people consider to be a hippie lifestyle.

But you know what? If caring about what I eat and trying to avoid chemical ridden carcinogenic products makes me a hippy, than peace out friends! I’ll take it.

JessicaMarch 25, 2013 - 8:00 am

We are in the same boat as you, right now. We’re doing are best to eat better and avoid processed junk. But if I am craving something, I will eat it. But hey, I’m ok with that!

ritaMarch 25, 2013 - 9:09 am

ha! welcome to the club! being a hippie gets better and better – i promise!

Julie / BoundMarch 25, 2013 - 10:59 am

Girl, welcome to my life! Like, in a serious way. Everyone makes such a big deal out of the fact that we pay a lot of attention to what we eat, but hey…their loss when we look fabulous at 50 and all those years of downing nachos are starting to show on the naysayers. (Except nachos are soooo good. So there’s that.)

MegMarch 25, 2013 - 11:03 am

i would do the tofu wrap but komucha i just cant. what are the benefits to kombucha? i can’t imagine giving up pizza in favor of a tofu wrap however

AliceMarch 25, 2013 - 1:15 pm

It is so true- the more I read about food, the more I don’t want to eat a lot of stuff. Fortunately, we’re big on home cooking over here, so I tend not to eat too much crap. And that means I REALLY enjoy it when I do!! x

CamilleMarch 25, 2013 - 11:02 pm

My husband and I are becoming the same way. Farmer’s market every weekend, and checking closely for gluten free labels… I’m not a pro at it, but we did just buy a juicer lol!

Rich KrawczykMarch 26, 2013 - 4:12 pm

Far Out Man!

Trust me – you and Kev are in no danger of being legitimately labeled “Hippies”!

I think your lifestyle and the environment you live in are great! But Hippies? No way, not unless it means something entirely different now then when it did in the sixties! Sorry for the bummer news!

As far as eating healthy – Right On!

Lexi @ Glitter, Inc.March 27, 2013 - 1:11 pm

I am in no way perfect with my own eating habits, but since getting married, my hubby and I do make a conscious effort to eat things with ingredients we recognize, and I love it!

A Case of The Blahs

Hello friends. Happy Friday! I feel like I say this all. the. time. but this week felt particularly long. My weekend in Tahoe was wonderful but it also kind of kicked my ass. Staying up late drinking into the wee hours of the morning really takes it out of me. I just can’t hang like I used to.

Lately I feel like my blog has been a bit… blah, and I’m not really sure how to snap out it this blahness. I’ve been feeling rather uninspired. I’ll have these random ideas for blog posts float through my head, but then whenever I sit down to write about them… nothing comes. So I apologize if my blog has been less than engaging lately. (and yes, I know I shouldn’t have to apologize for my blog, but since it is my blog, I can do what I want. and what I want to do is apologize for being boring.) (really I’m apologizing to myself.)

I’ve also started to feel really blah about my apartment, and I think maybe that is carrying over to my blog? That sounds crazy, I know. But I go home and I look around and I feel blah, and then I start to think of all the things I want to do to anthropologie it up and make it feel more “blogworthy,” and then I get overwhelmed and do nothing. I have lived in our apartment for three years, which is the longest I’ve lived anywhere consecutively since I was 18, and in a way I think being stationary for this long has made me feel… stagnant. I’m used to moving and purging and redecorating every couple of years. So now I want to paint a wall or redecorate a room or do… something.

source

I want my apartment to magically look just like this. And by magic I mean I want Emily Henderson to come over and redo it while I’m sleeping and then not charge me for it.

Last night Kevin and I got into a little tiny stupid argument, (mostly) my fault, about our extra room. You see, our apartment is small, and because of that, our second bedroom tends to morph into that of a storage unit.* And last night I went into it and stared around and then dramatically declared “I HATE THIS ROOM! WHAT IS THE POINT OF HAVING AN EXTRA ROOM IF WE JUST USE IT AS A CLOSET!” When Kevin looked at me dubiously, I continued: “I’VE WANTED TO MAKE THIS INTO A REAL GUEST ROOM FOR OVER A YEAR! BUT YOU NEVER HELP ME!” This is pretty much the opposite of true, so Kevin was less than pleased. The truth is that he offers to help me all the time, but I am exceptionally lazy and often say “I don’t feel like it, let’s do it another day.” And then he shrugs and says okay. And then I blame him later. Oh, marriage! (And yes, I apologized).

All of this is to say that I think I need to spice things up a bit, here on my blog and also in my apartment. A spring cleaning will do me some good. Purge and clean and update. And maybe then the inspiration will start flowing again.

Or maybe I just need to stop reading so many design blogs?

Probably the latter.

Anyway, how are you all doing? What’s new in your neck of the woods? Any of you feeling the same blah as me?

*Our friend Jesse refers to this as our “room of shame,” because 95% of the time when he comes over the door is shut and I tell him not to go in there. It’s like Monica’s secret closet.

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MoMarch 22, 2013 - 8:18 am

Our guest room was literally Justin’s closet/storage room. I would beat myself up about it too sometimes, but really lets look at the facts: We live in small, city apartments. Pretty, stylish spare rooms are for those with multiple walk-in closets, a garage, a basement and a storage shed out back. We don’t have those things. Don’t worry about your spare room! But let’s totally shop together for stuff to spruce up our living rooms.

StephanieMarch 22, 2013 - 9:59 am

I totally understand the blah feeling. We did a major deep cleaning last weekend and I went through my closet and made a pretty huge donation to Goodwill. That helped and it made me feel like it’s now okay to buy more stuff for the apartment.

SarahMarch 22, 2013 - 11:13 am

Aw been there. Wouldn’t it be nice to be like Bre in regards to having crazy awesome designer friends to help decorate our place and even possibly write off some of the expenses since those pictures went on her blog? *sigh* Just have a major purge sesh. Then start taking pictures of the tiny details. I took a pic of my vintage alarm clock in our guest room and it inspired me to do a post on my creative space. I hope you feel better!

nancy @ adore to adornMarch 22, 2013 - 11:25 am

Oh the woes of feeling blah. It’s actually how I have felt lately too. I am trying soooo hard to let it seep into other parts of my life…but misery loves company right?
I hope you find your inspiration soon. Hey…at least we have our meet-up to look forward to! =)
Here’s to the weekend!
xo,
nancy

DJ @werejustdandyMarch 22, 2013 - 8:49 pm

“I’ll have these random ideas for blog posts float through my head, but then whenever I sit down to write about them… nothing comes.”

YES. This happens to me all the time, and then I’ll have like a month of dead-air (dead-blog?). It’ll come back. And when it does, write like 10 posts at a time!!

PS your blog looks cute! I don’t think I’ve seen this design yet.

Allison @ Lawfully LostMarch 23, 2013 - 7:29 am

I felt like that last week with my condo and went out a bought new bedding. It made a world of difference, didn’t cost very much, and made me feel much better. Every day this week, I’ve walked into my bedroom and instantly felt better upon seeing my new purchase. Maybe make a small change, rather than a big project right off the bat?

Also, hilarious that your friend calls the spare room the “shame room”. Whether it’s a closet, room, garage, everyone has their own shame room.

xo
Allison
Lawfully Lost

HeathersphereMarch 24, 2013 - 7:57 am

I hate the blahs, but I enjoyed your blog and keep on posting, I will read! Take care.

Camille | Planning PrettyMarch 24, 2013 - 10:51 pm

I saw Bri’s new room and was instantly envious! Her sofa is my favorite color! I also need to do a spring cleaning on my blog. I have to take it to the next level, and take pride in my work. I wouldn’t say stop reading other blogs completely but definitely put yourself first! I think we all forget to do that sometimes.

NoraMarch 30, 2013 - 8:11 am

I sometimes feel the same way about my apartment. I would just change a few small things at a time, like get new throw pillows for the couch and eventually it will all come together!

Nora

KellyApril 3, 2013 - 4:11 pm

I’m very behind on my blogs (been busy!!) and I’m just reading through all of yours and seriously…JUST before I read this one, I was thinking “Her blog is so cheery and fun. I need to make my blog more like this” 🙂 So, haha…your blah may be my fun!! Just kidding, but I don’t find your blog blah at all 🙂

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